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You feel like a stranger in your own marriage – like the intimacy, trust, and connection are gone.
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You’ve tried everything and are now facing the hardest decision: stay or leave.
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You’ve gone to counseling, but nothing really stuck. You’re still stuck.
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You feel unappreciated – like nothing you do is ever enough.
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You long to feel seen, valued, and respected – not just as a provider, but as a partner.
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You’re not sure why she’s pulling away – but you know something has to change.
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You want to fix it, but nothing you’ve tried is working.
You’ve tried being patient. You’ve tried talking less. You’ve even tried just accepting things the way they are.
But if that was going to work, it would’ve worked by now.
Maybe you even tried counseling, only to walk away feeling blamed, confused, or like nothing really changed.
Still, you’re here – wondering if this is just how it’s going to be for the rest of your life.
That quiet ache? That loneliness? That fear of drifting further apart? It doesn’t have to be this way.
This is where coaching changes the game.
I’ll help you see what’s really going on beneath the surface – and give you clear, actionable steps to stop repeating the same painful cycles and start creating the relationship you actually want.
Whether you stay together or not, one thing is certain:
You won’t carry the same old patterns into the next chapter.
This is your turning point. Let’s get started.



I’m married with four adult children, but several years ago, my life felt like a series of life-altering events that I wasn’t sure I’d make it through. Disappointment, overwhelm, and shame piled up, and for a long time, I just kept pushing forward, convinced I had to hold it all together.
What changed?
I hired a coach. Then became a coach. And since 2019, I’ve been helping men (and women) create deeper intimacy, lasting happiness, and real fulfillment in their relationships. But this isn’t just what I teach – it’s what I’ve lived.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck, to try everything, and still wonder why nothing is changing. I’ve helped people build confidence, rebuild trust, solve problems, and break old patterns they didn’t even realize were keeping them stuck.
The truth? What’s really causing strain in your relationship isn’t what you think.
I get it because I’ve been there:
✔ Divorce? Yep.
✔ Second marriage? Yep.
✔ Trouble with kids? Yep.
✔ Serious illness and disability? Yep.
✔ Pressure to provide? Yep.
I know how overwhelming it can feel, but here’s what I also know: There is hope.
You don’t have to keep feeling stuck. You don’t have to settle for disconnection. We can figure this out – together.

